Discussions, research, contemplation and prayer, it’s been decided my daughter will return to homeschool for next year. While I LOVE the small, private, Christian school she is in, we financially can no longer afford to send her. The money spent on the school could be allocated to other bills that won’t take a backseat.
Sixth grade, junior high, here we come! I refuse to jump on the “Middle School” bandwagon. It was good enough to be called junior high for me, that’s what her current school calls it and that’s what we’ll continue to call it.
I briefly contemplated using a charter school because I could have received a stipend for educational-related expenditures from the district. While charters are supposed to allow more flexibility, for a public school, the down side is, they are still a public school. I became very upset just filling out the application. That seems silly, right? Perhaps.
The last two years, we have had this wonderful school. There’s no PC-ness in play. They ask for the mother’s and father’s signature on the application. While, I know there are many, many types of families, I admire they still acknowledge parents.
While filling out the charter application, it asked for the parents’ name. Then it asked who the child resides with. Why was “parents”, “mother” or “father” not even options? The option available: “Guardian 1”, “Guardian 2” and “Guardian 3” as the primary choices. What?! The nuclear family, while it has taken on some changes, still does exist.
When I brought this up to the charter, I received the approved response, “the options are within state guidelines”. Ah yes, good ole’ California and the front-runner of “don’t offend anyone”. I’m sorry but if the state of California is overseeing my daughter’s education, they should at the very least know that a “parent” and “guardian” are actually different words.
I was a guardian to my nieces for a year. I didn’t give birth or adopt them. I was their aunt. They lived with me. I made their important decisions. I fed and clothed them. I was their guardian.
Over the course of several evenings, unable to sleep, I kept researching charter schools and their requirements. In addition to their inability to accept parents as a legitimate term, they follow Common Core. Not to get into this educational nightmare, but let’s just say I’m not a fan and I won’t play nice with the district if they were insistent on how an answer was obtained vs if it was the correct answer. That’s not how the adult world works and that’s what I’m raising; a child to an adult.
That being said, I reached peace when I realized, we will return to a Christian-based curriculum. Where it’s acceptable to have my daughter’s homework include Biblical lessons, morality, and ethical responses in it. Once that decision was made, the decision to return to homeschool became so much simpler.
I know homeschooling isn’t for everyone. I know the state has to have some boundaries. Yet, they have overstepped and are reaching for what they aren’t entitled to. My daughter can learn to think critically without being tested excessively just to “prove a point” or “be another score for the district”.
I am grateful for the ability to be able to register as a private school. To teach my child in a modern way, yet have a Christian foundation. I am excited to see what the next school year will bring us. I’m sure my daughter will continue her spiritual and emotional growth, while on her educational journey.