It’s really a matter of who you’re speaking to. Where I live there’s a local, online community board. People can post garage sales, issues in the neighborhoods (or surrounding areas), criminal activity, etc.
I currently live in a small city. We have fenced in backyards, driveways, etc. We’re not directly on top of each other, but it’s definitely not the wide-open country either. That being said, I raised an issue of cats being left outside at night.
My point of posting was because either cats are mating and/or fighting. They are waking up my German Shepherd mix, who feels the need to alert everyone in the house of the noise outside, whether it be next door, down the street or off in the distance.
Once I am awoken, then I am awake; normally several hours at a time. The days of “putting the cat out” are over. I pointed out, we don’t live in the country, and part of being a responsible cat (or any pet) owner is keeping control of your pet at all times.
You’d have thought I said I was going to lace my backyard with rat poison and kill those blasted creatures. Quite the contrary. Granted, I despise loosing sleep because people are being irresponsible. I also hate that while I am not the best gardener, I don’t appreciate the neighborhood cats trying to use my garden as a little box either. So my post had a dual purpose.
Is it really so awful to ask people to be courteous; respectful? If you want your animals to have a lot more freedom to roam, then I suggest moving to a country setting where you have that capability. When living within city limits, where there are laws about this type of thing (silly me knowing that), it’s not out of bounds for people to take care of their pets, furbabies, and four-legged friends.
So, yes, to half my neighborhood, I am a horrible, neighbor. I want to sleep, so I can get up and safely drive my daughter to school, go to work and just function through the day. What was I thinking?!