I was just having a discussion in another group. A friend had added me and I knew better than to stay. I am simply too upfront with people and in today’s age, they don’t know how to deal with that.
The discussion was about driving THREE hours to go apple picking, pumpkin patches , getting baked goods and/or picking up a Christmas tree.
One person said she didn’t have time to bake pies, so she made this trek every year. I basically responded she could make the pie dough, process fresh pumpkins into puree and make three pies in the time it took to make the drive.
She responded, it’s a tradition, they stop for dinner, get their tree, etc.
Hmmmm…that’s not what she originally said. She said she didn’t have time to bake is why she went. Not the same thing. What is so hard about saying what you actually mean? This is a pet peeve of mine (obviously, if I’m blogging about it).
Not to mention, there’s only one road in and one road out, that moves about 5-10 miles per hour. It’s full of tourists who have no idea where they are going; making traffic worse.
There are vendors everywhere (good thing for a tourist trap). This aids in gumming up the traffic, as people aren’t sure which vendor they would like to stop at. I grew up in a tourist town. While it’s cute to take kids apple picking or let them go to a huge pumpkin patch (which we have locally too), it jacks the prices for people who have no idea that apple cider can be purchased for a much lower price elsewhere.
Family time can be done anywhere. Don’t defend a position after you change the parameters of said position. I did what I should have originally done; left the discussion and the group.
I need a tattoo that says, “does not play well with others”. Maybe a license plate frame too.