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Cancer Journey: Part 5

Published December 8, 2017 by lynn k scott

I met with a new oncologist yesterday.  Truth be told, I had several mini-meltdowns, at work no-less, trying to get an emergency referral to this new doctor.  I’m on my “off” week for my chemo-cycle and needed the referral, be seen and have the medication ordered and delivered, by today, in order to stay on track.

Prayers were definitely answered.  If you have followed up to now, you know I have received less-than-stellar care for my cancer.  To the point, the doctors should be sued.  Yea, it was that bad.

I walk into this new office; very apprehensive.  Very nice office staff.  They pointed out coffee and tea were available, if I wanted some.  Coffee?  That HAS to be a sign!  The computer system wasn’t cooperating, and the staff was apologizing to me for the wait and having to switch rooms.  Respect?  I’m not used that.  Such a simple thing, yet so many people no longer offer common courtesies.

Then I met the doctor.  She genuinely seemed concerned.  Part of the reason is because I’m technically too young to have colon cancer; without a family history of it.  I told her, what I have told a handful of doctors, there has been a lot of different cancer in my immediate family.  She took note of it.  Then mentioned something no one else has:  Lynch Syndrome.   She thinks I may have this.  From what I have read on the syndrome, it would explain the cancer in my paternal grandmother, my father and my 37-year old sister, and of course, now me.

I have previously declined genetic testing because two previous doctors were focusing on my risk of breast cancer.  They failed to elaborate when I didn’t see a need for it.  Based on other family member’s testing, I am almost certain I have an increased risk of breast cancer.  I didn’t need a test to confirm that.

My new oncologist pointed out, if I had Lynch syndrome, it’s more than just treating me; it could affect my children.  They would have a 50% chance of having the gene that causes the syndrome, thereby increasing their risk of certain cancers.

I am extremely grateful and blessed that I have been assigned to an empathetic, compassionate and caring physician.  This is how healthcare should be.  It shouldn’t be getting patients in and out in record time with minimal information.  Communication is so crucial, yet, often downplayed because too many doctors have their routine and expect patients to conform to it.

Toward the end of the appointment, she said, “you have five children and you need to live.”  That almost brought me to tears.  My chemo has been pushed out (more cycles added).  Extra testing has been ordered.  Vitamin D has been added to my daily dose of pill consumption.  There will be a PET scan and other testing once all the chemo has been concluded.

Overall, my prayers and those praying for me have been answered.  Prayers are still needed (and welcomed) as this battle is far from over.  At least now I feel like I have a fighting chance.


Need an Ativan just to go to the Doctor

Published March 4, 2015 by lynn k scott

I make no bones about it…I DESPISE AND HATE the medical profession with a passion.  I am not tolerant of red tape.  I speak and expect to be heard.  If I am seeking medical attention, than it’s absolutely necessary you sit up, push up your glasses, be prepared to take accurate notes and offer a solution.  Me seeing a doctor is the equivalent of a making an emergency room visit. It can’t wait and before you suggest me visiting the emergency room, I need to feel as if death is imminent to think about the amount it will cost me at the 7-11 of the medical world.  As if charging $6,000+ for a saline solution IV is acceptable ANYWHERE! (Note:  I was actually charged that two years ago).

With all the “lovely” healthcare changes, my company, which is a good one, had to make some changes to be “in compliantce” with these new mandates.  If you haven’t already been able to tell by the tone of this post, “healthcare reform” is not a topic I think has been resolved or remotely addressed, esp. by the idiot who’s name it bears.  Sorry; I digress.

Back to the issue.  My company goes with this new insurance carrier who has their own plan.  Needless to say, we’re starting month three of with this carrier and contracts have yet to be signed for certain counties.  Services are virtually non-existent.  I use the list of providers that was given to us, only to find out, it’s actually insufficient, as the majority of the providers, not even in my county, aren’t available and needs to be “updated”.

I have to hand it to the carrier’s customer service skills. They were nice enough to tell me where I could find an Internal Medicine doctor:  Fresno.  From where I live, that’s a FOUR-HOUR DRIVE!  Needless to say, the customer service representative didn’t quite care for me raising my voice and asked what was wrong with her for even making that suggestion.

Since I’m on my medical-bashing roll, let’s talk about the new trend of Nurse Practitioners.  I am not a fan of dealing with ONE, not a clinic of, but ONE doctor who is practicing medicine.  You actually think, that there is some cosmic influence that would make me actively seek out a Nurse Practitioner who is playing doctor.  Somewhere, someone thought….”Hey I know!  We are going to have a huge influx of people seeking medical treatment.  I don’t want to give up my golf-game and actually work more than two days a week, so let’s give a nurse the power to write prescriptions.”

Seriously?  Doctors miss stuff all the time and they’ve gone to school to become “educated”.  I’m not a fan of taking medicines, unless there is no other alternative.  To expect people to see a script-writing nurse is absurd.  Sure a doctor is in the office if she needs assistance.  Great…I’ll speak to the doctor directly then.

I guess I miss the days when you saw the same doctor, they knew your name, they didn’t quickly skim your chart and cover all your issues in 3 minutes so they could move on to the next patient, because they purposely book more than one person for the same time slot.

I don’t do clinics.  I’m not a number.  I speak to real people and I won’t answer a series of questions just to book an appointment.  Oh it’s policy that I answer them because my doctor has deemed them necessary?  Oh did you really just ask me if I was pregnant?  Hmm, if my doctor deems that question necessary and he/she doesn’t know the answer already, there’s a problem.  I’ve had plans that worked that way.  I answer “no” to every single question.  Later when making the appointment, I’ll contradict myself and say I have “so and so issue”.  They nurse then says, “but you said no to that question”.  To which, I simply would say, “I told you I would.  I don’t do surveys to make an appointment”.

So now, here I wait, hoping my broker can fix the non-provider issue while the carrier removes its collective head from it’s collective ass and does what we’re paying a small fortune for them to do. After all it’s only been 4 months since we elected this plan and it’s been a full 60 days active.  I’m done playing nice.  And in case you’re wondering, where the medical profession is concerned, this is me being extremely nice; cuz you ain’t seen nothin’ yet!

Luke 23:43 Jesus answered him, “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise.”

Photo by Matthew C Seufer - Oak Grove Baptist Church- Elgin,South Carolina USA June 10,2013 (Page 14 in the Inspirational book "Windows From Heaven")


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