I’ve had several conversations, some good and some that make me cringe, on the topic of Betsy DeVos being confirmed as Education Secretary. While, I don’t typically write controversial posts, the education realm is something I have strong feelings on. They definitely differ from the “norm”.
“She’s not qualified” seems to be the chant of the hour. DeVos actually supports private schools and homeschools. Oh the proverbial horror!!! If you’ve followed my blog at all, you know I have homeschooled and I currently have my daughter in a very small, private, Christian school. I am not upset by DeVos not being an educator or a school administrator.
WHY? (I’m sure someone is asking that question.)
As a homeschool mom, one of the biggest “digs” we hear is ‘you don’t have a teaching degree’. Nope, you’re right…I don’t. However, my state simply states I have to capable of teaching…and I am! Most people don’t realize, homeschooled children typically surpass their public school counterparts in the testing realm. There’s a simple reason for this. The teacher/student ratio is smaller and the parents are more committed to their child. It’s that simple.
I know homeschooling isn’t for everyone. I’ve heard, “well I have to work and don’t have the luxury of staying home with my child”. Gee….welcome to the club. I work full-time too; thank you very much. The nice part of homeschooling is…you can do it whenever you want. So we did lessons after dinner and homework during the day. It can be done.
I’m not super mom. I’m exhausted mom. I’m broke mom. I struggle to keep my child in a private school. A school where her emotional and spiritual well-being is as important as her academic well-being is. A place they say the Pledge every morning and are free to celebrate Christmas and not have to be PC and say “Happy Holidays”.
Currently, my property taxes pay for a school, that I find unsafe, inept, protects bullies and embraces the educational nightmare known as Common Core. I received no compensation for homeschooling. I can’t write off the tuition for private school, yet I pay for public school.
I pay for a school, in a district that wastes money. A school I had to send in a lot of supplies for because of mismanaged funds. A school where several teachers homeschool their children because they know how horrible public school can be.
While public school is a must for many children and families, something needs to be changed. Perhaps embracing school choice is the answer. Perhaps leaving my property tax dollars to fund a public school remains unchanged. I can live with that. However, to be fair, I am not opposed to receiving a discount for homeschooling and/or a tax write-off for choosing the educational model that works best for MY child.
We live inn a time where personal accountability is at an all-time low; where entitlement reigns supreme. Schools are unsafe because the parents of kid-bullies threaten to sue or say, “not my child” or refuse to acknowledge their hellion attacked a teacher. Teachers unions that protect abusive teachers who bully kids, humiliate them because they don’t understand a perceived simple concept. PTAs meet right after school to omit working parents from attending, simply because it’s convenient for the teachers…THESE are the reasons why someone who is not tied to the public school system needs to be in this position.
Not everyone can or will choose to homeschool or use a private or charter school, but those options are out there. Those of us who have researched and know these to be the best educational options for our children shouldn’t lose out because the public school system failed us. We deserve to be heard and to receive the same incentives.
As parents, we follow the law of mandatory education. However, our children are our primary concern and the district, the state and the government need to know, we have the final say when it comes to our children.
I am hoping this change will bring about positive and necessary changes for the sake of our children. The current system has been broken for far too long.