When it comes to parenting, there are more ways to approach to raising children than I could shake a stick at. There are just as many parenting topics that could be addressed too.
I’m going to leap into the educational realm of parenting. Whether your child attends a public, private or home school, parents and children have a relationship based on that environment.
I just realized, my youngest has been in public school, then we homeschooled and now she’s attending a private school. I always tell my daughter, “We are in this together. We are a team for your educational success.”
Sometimes my daughter agrees with me and she’s ready to tackle the world. Other times, my “team” approach is met with a heavy sigh and rolling of her eyes.
I was preparing her backpack this morning; making sure all her books, homework and whatever else is needed for the day was included. I love when my daughter shows me the graded work she’s received from her teacher. Yet, I have to remember, I’m still dealing with a child, who isn’t always forthcoming with all her returned work; especially when the grade isn’t all that magnificent.
That was the case this morning. I pulled out all these additional sheets of a paper. Some were satisfactory grades, one was barely passing and one had ???? over it. Me being me, I planned on speaking with my daughter after she was ready for the day. It would seem the ???? paper wasn’t properly completed because she simply didn’t feel like doing it.
I can relate to that! However, we’re not homeschooling any more and it’s not possible just to table an assignment for another day. I had to reiterate she needs to complete the work as assigned, on time.
There was English work that I was concerned with. Tenses and parts of speech getting mixed up. I decided I was going to have the lil miss practice with some online educational games.
Her teacher is great, but I can see my daughter is struggling with a few things. By being involved, treating her education like a business model, investing my time, we will grow her knowledge together. School doesn’t have to be all boring. We can play word games, have conversations and utilize the technology that’s out there.
Her success depends on my involvement. I firmly believe in working with her teacher, keeping open discussions going, finding out where there are issues and addressing them. If no official homework is assigned, then I give her something to do each night. That could include reading her library book to me, playing Scrabble, catching up on some math concepts that could use reinforcement, etc.
Parents know their children best. That is one reason I firmly believe in homeschooling. When that isn’t an option, you don’t have to simply sit by and do only what the school says. You can supplement or raise questions when you see areas that are causing stress. I see that as my job as her parent, as her partner, for her education.
It’s my business to know where she stands. It’s her business to be the best student she can be. It’s our business to accomplish this together.